SOALAN:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Apakah hukumnya ibu bapa yang pilih kasih kepada anak-anaknya?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
JAWAPAN:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hukum ibu bapa pilih kasih di antara anak-anak adalah dilarang oleh agama.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Yang dimaksudkan pilih kasih yang dilarang ini ialah pada perkara zahir yaitu melebihkan pemberian nafaqah atau hadiah atau seumpamanya daripada yang bangsa zahir kepada sebahagian anak yang dia kasih.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ada pun hati lebih kasih kepada sebahagian anak maka ia tidak termasuk yang dilarang kerana hati manusia tidak boleh untuk menyamakan perasaan kasih kepada semua.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Telah diriwayatkan daripada Nu\u2019man bin Basyir r.a. berkata:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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Artinya: \u201cAku berangkat bersama bapaku kepada Rasulullah saw maka kata bapaku: Wahai Rasulullah. Sungguhnya aku telah memberikan pemberian akan Nu\u2019man suatu dari hartaku. Lalu sabdanya: Adakah semua anak-anakmu kamu beri sebagaimana kamu beri kepada Nu\u2019man? Kata bapaku: Tidak. Jawab Rasulullah: Bersaksilah atas ini oleh selainku kemudian berkata: Adakah kamu suka sekiranya semua anak-anakmu sama-sama berbuat baik kepadamu? Jawab bapaku: Ya. Kata Rasulullah: Kalau begitu jangan buat begini.\u201d
(Hadith Imam Muslim)<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dan pada riwayat yang lain Rasulullah saw berabda kepada bapa Nu\u2019man:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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Artinya: \u201cMaka hendaklah kamu takut akan Allah dan hendaklah kamu berlaku adil antara anak-anakmu.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Wallahua\u2019lam
Ustaz Azhar Idrus<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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